There are many girls who think that spending loads of money on shadis for the decoration and food for half the people they don't even know and just to showcase there status is a bad idea. Instead why not spend it on a social cause or perhaps spend it on oneself or maybe save it for later coz its not necessary to put that money out there spending on things one doesn't require. 
Is it too early to ask if shaadi can not be made such a big deal and perhaps a girls education is made a big deal? 
Lets focus more on education and what a girl wants and not a shaadi and what the family wants! 
Thank you! 😀